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Met a guy & wasn't interested. Now when we chat he keeps talking bout who he's fucking thinking I'll be jealous...it actually makes me happy
Am I alone? Completely? http://t.co/feCtsxry3Q
Tip: You can't make someone love or want you; the best you can do is make them pretend...which means in reality you're still alone anyway.
That City Boy
I never thought it would be me!
Rape is somewhat taboo in the gay community. The general belief tends to be that some young guy didn’t get what he thought he would and therefore cries ‘wolf’. I never thought I’d come face to face with this issue. Luckily I wasn’t raped but I came pretty darn close. No it wasn’t violent or aggressive but nonetheless it was a case of someone trying to disrespect my decision not to be penetrated. I’d been chatting with a guy for a few weeks and we kept not being able to coordinate our schedules in a way so we could meet. Last night the chance came and I invited him over. Because he had been speaking in a relationship undertone, I made up my mind that we would not go all the way sexually. When he got to my house, my first glance made me realize we were not compatible. While he wasn’t unattractive, he just wasn’t my type and face to face conversation proved we were on different intellectual platforms. We discussed prospects and decided we would only have a friendship with possible benefits. He then tried to kiss me but I stepped back. I told him politely that I’m only into kissing if I’m dating someone or in the middle of sex but I find it weird that a ‘friend’ wants to kiss me in the middle of a conversation. He apologised and then started hinting at having sex. I hate people trying to ‘trick’ me into getting sexual so I asked if he was trying to turn me on so we could have sex. As a deterrent to myself I intentionally hadn’t done the necessary preparations for getting fucked. I told him I was cool with a foreplay session and mutual masturbation but not penetration. He agreed and we got into it. Everything was cool until he pushed me onto my stomach and started admiring my ass. Didn’t find this unusual as I do have a nice ass. He pinned me down and started dry humping. I heard a strange plastic/paper noise and looked up to see him tearing open a condom. I immediately got up and asked him if he was planning on trying to penetrate me after I had expressly said no! He grinned and tried to hug me. Needless to say that I was completely turned off! I was thinking ‘wow this guy is actually willing to disrespect my wishes and rape me and think its ok’. This really opened my eyes to how easily rape can occur and sadly most guys would just give in, regret the experience and think it was just a part of life. Needless to say that I won’t be seeing him again. And the sad part is that I was sexually turned on by him and on another occasion with the necessary preparations done we probably would have had a good time. ——————